Two years ago I quit earrings. Not on purpose, and not with any announcement. I just got tired of the itch. My earlobes would go warm and pink about an hour after I put in a pair of drugstore hoops, and I would take them out before lunch and forget about them until the next occasion that called for something nicer than bare ears.
The first week of February I bought a pair of Gabry&jwl huggie hoops, the 10mm size, and I have worn them nearly every day since. Nine months now. Church on Sunday, the church office on Wednesday mornings, lunch with Donna on Thursdays, the grocery store, the dentist, and one long Saturday helping my husband Walt clean out the garage. They are the only earrings I own that I put on without thinking about it, which for me is the whole test.
The Quick Verdict
Nine months of daily wear on lobes that had quit on cheap earrings, with one real annoyance: the little hinge is fiddly for older fingers.
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316L surgical stainless steel, hinged so there is no separate back to lose, and sized from 6mm up to 14mm. Mine are the 10mm.
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My routine has not changed since I retired, it has just gotten slower. Jewelry goes on last, after the lotion, the hairspray and the perfume have all had a chance to dry. Everything comes off at bedtime and before a shower, a bath, or any work in the yard. The huggies come off for all of that too. They live in one lined tray in the top drawer of my dresser, in their own compartment, and I wipe them with a soft dry cloth before they go back in. No dips, no polish, no toothpaste, no ultrasonic machine. I have never been one to fuss over jewelry and I am not starting now.
I have one piercing in each ear and never more, so I cannot tell you how these behave in a second hole or up in the cartilage. What I can tell you is what nine months of ordinary days looks like. I put them in around seven in the morning and take them out around ten at night. They have been rained on, worn through a hair appointment, worn under a winter hat, and worn to a funeral where I forgot I had them on until I caught myself in the mirror in the ladies room. There was the Wednesday in June when I sat in the church office folding bulletins for three hours and never once reached up to touch my ear, which sounds like a small thing until you remember that the old drugstore hoops had me fiddling with my lobes by ten in the morning. And there was the first cold morning in October, when I pulled a knit hat down over my ears without thinking about it and the hoops stayed put instead of snagging in the wool.
I did not buy a second pair and I did not order another size. One pair, one size, one order, and that is the entire experiment. My daughter Kelly thinks I am funny about this, but I would rather know one thing well than own five things I cannot keep track of.
Before I ordered, I looked at sterling silver hoops at a department store counter. I want to be fair to them. They were pretty, they felt heavier in the hand, and the woman behind the counter was kind about my questions. I did not buy them and I have never worn them, so I am not going to sit here and compare the two from experience. What I can tell you is that I was not confident silver would behave on my ears after the run I had with cheap metal, and I wanted the steel.
Why I Stopped Wearing Earrings for Two Years
I want to be careful here, because I am not a doctor and I never went to one about this. All I know is what happened. Somewhere in my fifties, the cheap hoops I used to buy in a multipack started leaving my lobes red and warm and itchy by the end of a workday. Not swollen, not oozing, nothing that scared me. Just uncomfortable enough that I stopped reaching for earrings in the morning. It went on so long that I gave most of what I had to a church rummage sale and went around with bare ears for about two years.
So when the listing for these said hypoallergenic, I did not take it as a promise. I took it as a reason to try one pair. Hypoallergenic is not a guarantee and it does not mean the same thing on every listing. Anyone with a real reaction, swelling, weeping, a rash that spreads, should be talking to a dermatologist and not to me and not to an Amazon review. What I can tell you is that these are 316L surgical stainless steel and that my own ears have not gone pink once in nine months. That is my experience. It is not a medical claim and I would not dress it up as one.
The difference for me came down to the metal, plain and simple. I had been wearing something plated over something else, and the something else was the problem. Steel is not fancy. It is just steady.
What 316L Surgical Steel Actually Means
It means steel. That is the honest answer. 316L is a grade of stainless steel that turns up in surgical instruments and in body jewelry, and it is a good deal more predictable against skin than the mystery metal in a drugstore multipack. It is not gold, it is not platinum, and nobody should buy these thinking they are getting fine jewelry. The listing lists the metal as stainless steel and carries a 14K metal stamp in the details. I read that as a mark in the listing, not a promise of solid gold, and I would tell any friend the same thing over coffee.
What you get from Gabry&jwl is a small hinged hoop with no separate back. The listing calls the back finding endless, which in plain English means the post folds into the hoop and clicks shut. There is no tiny butterfly back to drop on the bathroom tile and no pair of earrings that turns into one earring by Tuesday. I have lost more backs than I have lost earrings in my life, so this mattered to me more than I expected it to.
The sizes run from 6mm up to 14mm. I chose 10mm because I wanted something that read as an earring from across the room and not as a stud. My neighbor's daughter wears the little ones and my friend Donna wears a bigger hoop than mine, so I think there is a size in here for most people. Mine sits close against the lobe and does not swing or catch on a collar. On a Tuesday it is the only jewelry on my head and it is enough.
Nine Months of Daily Wear
Here is what nine months actually did. The shine is still there. Not the hard bright shine of something new out of a box, but a soft, even shine that looks like jewelry and not like a piece of hardware. I wipe them with a dry cloth every night and that has been the whole of the maintenance. There is no flaking, no dull patch, no dark ring on the metal where it meets my skin, and nothing has turned my skin green. I have done the nosy thing and held one up to the window in March and again in September. In March the shine was sharp and a little hard. By September it had softened into something that looks like a piece you have owned a while, which is what I want. What I look for on a plated piece is the patch where the plating has gone thin, usually on the part that rubs. There is no such patch on these, because there is no plating to go thin, just steel through and through.
The finish inside the hinge has picked up a little dullness, which I expected. A hinge is a moving part and moving parts wear. It still clicks shut and it still stays shut. I have not had one come open on its own, and I have not had one work its way loose during the day, including the Saturday in the garage where I was bent over and reaching and sweating for six hours.
Comfort is where these earn their place. I forget I have them on. That sentence sounds like nothing and it is actually everything, because the earrings I owned before were the first thing I noticed in the morning and the first thing I wanted off at night. These I notice only when I catch them in the mirror, which is the correct amount of noticing for an everyday earring.
I should say what I have not done. I have not slept in them, swum in them, or gardened in them, because that is not how I treat any jewelry. If you are somebody who wants to put a pair in and forget them for a month at a stretch, I cannot tell you how these do, because I have never worn them that way and I am not going to guess.
Where They Fall Short
The hinge on the Gabry&jwl huggies is fiddly. There is no polite way to say it. It is a small mechanism, and my fingers are sixty-one years old and stiff in the morning. The first few weeks I stood at the bathroom mirror fumbling with it, and there were two mornings I gave up and put in the pearl studs instead. It has gotten easier as I have learned the motion, but it is still the one part of these earrings I would change. If your hands are arthritic, have someone open the hinge for you the first few times and see how you feel about the whole idea before you commit. I timed myself one morning out of curiosity. Forty seconds on the left, fifteen on the right, and that was a good day with decent light. On a bad morning it runs longer, and I have learned to put them in before I put my glasses on, because I need to see what I am doing and the frames get in the way. That is the honest arithmetic of it.
The other thing is that these are small and plain by design. There is no stone, no texture, no sparkle. They are a hoop. If you are looking for something that catches the light across a dinner table, this is not that earring, and I would not pretend otherwise. They also are not fine jewelry and they will not age like fine jewelry. Nine months in, mine look good. I do not expect them to look new in five years and I did not buy them expecting that.
What I Liked
- No itch for nine months on lobes that had given up on cheap metal
- Hinged closure, so there is no separate back to lose
- Light enough that I forget I am wearing them
- The shine has held with nothing but a dry cloth
- Sized from 6mm to 14mm, so you choose how much hoop you want
Where It Falls Short
- The hinge is small and fiddly, especially first thing in the morning
- Plain by design, with no stone and no sparkle
- Not fine jewelry, and the finish will not stay new forever
- You order one size at a time, so the first order is a guess
Nine months, one piercing in each ear, and not one morning of pink, warm, itchy lobes. That is most of the review, if I am honest.
Who This Is For
This is for the woman who wants to wear earrings again and stopped because her ears fussed at her. If you have been going around with bare lobes for a year or two, and you miss the way a small hoop finishes an outfit, these Gabry&jwl huggies are worth one order. They are also for anyone who has lost a hundred little butterfly backs down a bathroom sink and wants a pair that closes on itself and stays closed. There is a practical sort of woman this suits too, the one with a jewelry box full of single earrings and no memory of where the partners went. I am that woman. I spent years buying pairs and wearing one. With a hinged hoop there is nothing to lose but the hoop itself, and mine have been in and out of a tray twice a day for nine months without a single disappearance.
They suit a plain shirt and a cardigan, they suit church, and they suit a Thursday lunch where nobody is looking at your ears but you feel better knowing they are there. I wear mine with the wedding band Walt gave me and nothing else most days. If you want one pair of earrings that can go all week without a thought, this is that pair.
Who Should Skip It
Skip these if you want sparkle. If your everyday earring needs to catch the light, get the pearl studs or something with a stone in it, because a plain steel hoop is never going to do that job. Skip them if your hands are genuinely painful to use, because that hinge will fight you every morning and there is no reason to sign up for a fight you can avoid.
Skip them if you are shopping for fine jewelry and expect these to stand in for the real thing. And skip them, honestly, if you have an active skin reaction happening right now. Get that looked at first. A pair of steel hoops is not a treatment and I would not want one person reading this to think I said it was.
Nine months in, these are still the pair I reach for
If your lobes quit on cheap earrings, start with one pair in one size and give it a few weeks. Mine are the 10mm in 316L surgical stainless steel.
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